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Friday, May 22, 2020

A Time to Remember


In remembrance of those who gave sacrificially and to their families.

“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us
 in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.

For just as the sufferings of Christ overflow to us, so also through
Christ our comfort overflows.” (2 Corinthians 1:3-5)

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Friday, June 24, 2016

Somewhere In-Between

Larry and Elizabeth had come into town to have lunch with us at a local restaurant.  When we arrived Liz was standing inside waving us over to the table.  Quickly saying our hellos and ordering we got around to chatting about family and friends. 

Not long into our conversations the waitress brought our lunches, but there was a bit of a problem.  My food was on Liz’s plate, part of her meal was missing, hubby had to send my salad back and his sandwich was on white bread not rye. The only one who didn’t have anything wrong was Larry. 

We didn’t let it phase us.  After sorting out our meals we went back to our conversations, only this time Larry and my husband started talking about cars and who knows what else.  Liz and I continued in our own world and the two sets never intertwined.  

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Duck, Bob and Weave 

Liz was sitting across from me, and my husband and I had a seat between us.  While she was talking I leaned to the left and stretched out my arm over the middle chair.  Bending my arm I rested my head on my hand and sort of took a detour on what was happening.  The body was there, but the brain was on leave. 

I didn’t mean to be rude, but I couldn’t keep my thoughts on the conversation.  It had nothing to do with my friends and Liz knew that I was waiting for a call concerning my father.    

A few days earlier my brother mentioned that Dad wanted to talk to me, only he fell asleep before we could speak.  He had already spoken to the rest of the family except for yours truly.  As soon as Dad woke my brother said he would call, so I was anxiously waiting not knowing what time of day or night that would be. 

Trying to interact with my friend the subject was changed to the weather and heat wave.  Knowing that she didn’t have an air conditioner (by choice for health reasons), I wondered how she was beating all this heat. 

“How are you keeping cool?  Do you have a ceiling fan?” 

Liz went on to enlighten me about her situation. 

“We bought a big fan with a stand and that does a pretty good job.  We also have a ceiling fan, but it only has two blades.” 

As soon as she said that I popped back on my chair and started laughing. I couldn’t help myself picturing two blades going clunkity clunk round and round.  Certainly there was more to this story. 

“Liz why are there only two blades?” 

“Larry kept hitting his head on it so he took some out.” Liz explained. 

You see Larry is well over six feet tall and 80 years old! Can you visualize Larry caught in-between blades trying to duck, bob and weave as he entered the living room?  I guess taking out two or three of the blades gave him time to dodge the others.   

What was so funny to me is that I’d never heard of a two blade ceiling fan so I found it was hysterical and so did hubby. Come to find out there are thousands of those buggers and it’s not so uncommon after all.  The difference is they were made to be that way!

Right about then the phone rang and everyone got quiet as if someone had turned off a switch to the sound of our voices.  I knew it was my brother. 

Taking the Call 

Checking the number hubby handed me the phone; I tried to hear what was happening on the other end of the line.  At this point my father was only awake a few minutes of the day and hadn’t eaten anything in four days.  Being longtime friends of my parents, Larry and Elizabeth were also eager to hear from my family regarding the state of Dad. 

None of us could understand why Dad was still holding on and hadn’t left for Heaven when all he talked about was being with my mother.  His vital signs and organs were working great but something was keeping him here. 

When I began to speak to my brother, he told me that Dad woke up and asked for water. He drank almost eight ounces and even ate a snack size pudding cup.  With him now alert it would be a good time to call. 

Trying to get my father to stay awake my brother beckoned “keep talking.” Over and over I repeated “Dad, I love you.” Realizing that my voice level was rising I got up from the table and went outside. 

For the next 45 minutes my brother tried to catch Dad awake for more than a few seconds so he could take a picture with his eyes open while I was talking with him.  Not being able to be there with my father at this moment was extremely difficult for both of us.
By now I was sitting on the concrete step outside the restaurant listening to my brother coach my Dad.  

“Open your eyes Pop. Pop, Fay’s on the phone do you want to talk to her. Pop, Pop, open your eyes. Say something Pop.” 

Finally he was awake but could only make a shallow grunting sound confirming that he understood what was happening.  Putting the phone to his ear I began to tear up as I repeated myself. 

“Dad, I love you …” Something then moved in my spirit. “It’s okay Dad.  It’s okay if you want to go.  You’ll be with Mom, Van and your other babies that Mom miscarried.  It’s okay, we’ll all be together again.  I love you.” 

As soon as I said that he closed his eyes.  You see the rest of the family except one of my sisters and me, had released my Dad back in January.  Ann sang to Dad on Tuesday and gave her blessings.  I was the last one to “release” my father and up to that point I wasn’t ready to do it.   

With our conversation my father seemed to find peace.  Several hours later another call came …Dad never woke again … he had given up the ghost and went home to Heaven. 

Caught in-between 

For days I tried to sleep but couldn’t.  It wasn’t as if I hadn’t cried buckets, because I had.  All week long I was thinking about how I could present this post and how was God’s favor in this if my Dad didn’t get healed?  How could I tell the story so that readers could see God in times of sorrow?   

It was a conversation I had with my husband several weeks ago that gave me the answer.  One of the reasons my father wasn’t healed is because he didn’t want to stay. His heart had already moved to Heaven and God will not go against the will of man.  What he was facing reminded me of the passage Paul spoke to the Philippians. 

“For I am hard-pressed between the two, having a desire to depart and be with Christ, which is far better.  Nevertheless to remain in the flesh is more needful for you.” (Philippians 1:23-24 NKJV) 

Perhaps my father was waiting for all his kids to release him and hear the words “We’ll all be together again.”  My heart would like to think this was the reason however I believe my husband’s words were correct. 

I Shall Go to Him 

One of the things my mother always prayed was that all her family would come to know Christ.  She was uncertain about my father’s salvation and so we have continued her requests since her home going, asking the Lord to honor my mother’s prayers in that He wouldn’t let Dad leave without being right with Him. 

When I talked with my husband he shared how the favor, grace of God was present and that the Lord was honoring our prayers.  He was giving my father more time to give his life to God. 

After we got word that Dad had made the move, my spirit was at rest. Although I cried because I will miss him dearly here on earth, I felt like King David in the Bible when he learned his baby boy had passed. 

Instead of mourning over his son when his prayers weren’t answered, David rose up, washed his face, changed his clothes and anointed himself before entering into the House of the Lord to worship God.  His servants didn’t understand the King’s behavior after losing a child. 

There was a reason David was at peace with what happened even though it didn’t turn out like he expected. He knew one day his family would be reunited only this time it would be with God (Jesus) in Heaven.   

No Greater Favor 

Why was David able to have such inner peace in the midst of a tragedy and not get caught in-between what was, what could be or what should be? He believed God and the grace (favor) promise of eternal life to those who accept Jehovah into their heart. (See 2 Samuel 12:20-22)
God fulfilled that promise through His Son, Jesus Christ.

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 

For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” (John 3:16-17 NKJV) 

Having peace and hope allowed the King to move forward in His walk with the Lord for greater things to come.  He didn’t “stay stuck” in grief, confusion or loss, but came out of the in-between place to embrace what was to come with joy.  God wants us to do the same. 

The hope we have as Christians is that we too shall go to Heaven and see those of our family who also believed in Jesus.  There is no greater favor than that of salvation, eternal life and spending eternity with your family.  

“For by grace you have been saved through faith, and not of yourselves; it is the (grace, favor) gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) 

If we have a real relationship with Christ our journey with Him will never end and we don’t have to be caught in-between wanting to stay or leave.  None of us know what the real reason was behind all that we witnessed with my father, because it was ultimately between God and him.   

Although our family is still processing the departure of our earthly father, the Lord has been gracious in giving us His Holy Spirit the Comforter.  We have been visited by the Lord with the favor of His salvation, and gladly rejoice in eternity as our inheritance as chosen people knowing there is more for us to do here and now. 

“Remember me, O LORD, with the favor You have toward Your people. Oh, visit me with Your salvation, that I may see the benefit of Your chosen ones.  That I may rejoice in the gladness of Your nation, that I may glory with Your inheritance.” (Psalm 106-4-5 NKJV)  

This Week’s Challenge:
No More In-Between 

It’s been hard dealing with all the hate, crime and ungodly acts that have been plaguing the globe recently.  Some of you are caught in-between handling so much devastation that it is rocking the very foundation of your belief in God.  You’re angry and want relief from all the pain!  You need to literally “feel” God’s comfort and have peace restored in your life. 

I want to help rebuild your faith and let you know that God … Heaven itself … is reaching down to touch Earth with unmerited favor for those who will remain steadfast and not waver.  God has heard your cry and wants to move on your heart with His shield of favor surrounding you with mercy, grace and love. (Psalm 5:12) 

Our challenge is to step out of that “in-between” place where we want to believe, but circumstances are getting in the way of it happening.  As we trust the Lord unconditionally God will overtake us with His glory, so that we will know what it means to truly journey with Jesus. 

Whatever you are going through the Lord has made His peace, comfort, forgiveness and blessings available to whoever will call on His mighty name.  There is a shield of favor waiting for you … it comes with mercy and grace to cover the pain and suffering you are experiencing.  God has something good He’s about to do in your life.  Believe there’s more than what you see before you at this moment. 

Right now, pray for God to remember you with His favor and that you “feel” His loving arms around you as He sorts out the details of your situation. Ask Jesus to show you the benefits of your salvation so that your spirit is no longer caught in-between, but comforted and restored for great works. 

“Remember me, O LORD, with the favor You have
toward Your people. Oh, visit me with Your salvation,
that I may see the benefit of Your chosen ones…” 
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Until next time, Oh God, remember us with Your favor! 

“Eternal salvation is a benefit of My grace and favor.”
Jesus Christ 

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Friday, June 17, 2016

God of All Comfort

 
I want to apologize for not being able to make my usual post today, but I trust you will grant me this brief delay. 

As I am publishing this it has only been a few hours since my earthly father left for Heaven and our family is in the process of working out all the details.  

I love you and am looking forward to sharing the faithfulness of God during this time of sadness. 

“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
the Father of mercies (unmerited favor) and God of all comfort!
(2 Corinthians 1:3 NKJV) 

With love …
 
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Friday, December 11, 2015

Grace at Christmas

I could hear him crying in the other room as I peeled an orange at the kitchen table. He was preparing for a task that no one ever likes doing, yet it is the debt that all mankind must pay. 

My heartbeat is pounding loudly in my ears. The only sound to overtake it is the whistle of the train in the background. 

The process had begun three weeks ago and was coming to an end.  People smile saying have a nice day … how could they know what was happening? 

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The Good, the Bad and the Ugly 

All around us life is being carried out to various degrees of good, bad and just plain ugly situations.  Unless we are actively involved in the daily events of those around us, we haven’t a clue as to what they are experiencing.  

Forget paying attention to world news, it only takes a glance out my front door to know things are changing rapidly.  Someone is moving out, one home is empty, people are moving in, a loved one was lost, a couple separated and another may lose their home.  You can easily come to the point where you don’t want to leave your house lest these things fall upon you.  Yet we know evil doesn’t play favorites and leaves no stone unturned. 

I can’t remember exactly when, but I think it was mid-November when the passage Job spoke to his wife came to mind. 

“… but he (Job) said unto her (his wife). You speak as one of the foolish women speaks.  Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity (evil)? In all this Job did not sin with his lips.” (Job 2:10 NKJV) 

At that time I was curious as to why this particular verse came to my thinking.  Things were getting better and my husband was improving.  I could see the hand of God’s favor on us. 

For all I knew it was just a “general” statement that I was to keep in mind as I learned about what was happening around the world.  So much evil was going on you could easily relate this passage to the events. 

November 20th, 2015 

When we woke that morning we didn’t realize that there was a literal countdown to events that would transpire in our lives.  After hearing a negative doctor’s report I knew what we needed to do.  As a worship leader I know how praising God in song changes the elements and atmosphere around you.  It was an affirmation from the Lord when the first song I heard playing was “Holy Spirit You Are Welcome Here.” 

My husband and I spent the next twenty-four hours listening to continual praise and worship music from a Christian radio station.  Actually, we didn’t shut off the music for two days.  God ministered to us as we worshipped Him, believing His Word as truth.  

It brought comfort to my soul when my husband said, “Either way, it will be okay.”  Now all I had to do was believe it. 

Night Song 

As the playlist continued it was if God put each one in the order He wanted them heard.  Psalm 130:5 led us as our hope in the Lord began.  I put my hope in Your Word … Your love never fails. Joy comes in the morning and I don’t have to be afraid. You work all things together for my good.  These words resonated as the Newsboys sang "You’re Love Never Fails." 

Throughout the night I wrote down each song and at the time not knowing why I needed to do it.  I kept journaling, writing what I was thinking and praying as if it were something I would hand in to God for an assignment. 

The following is part of my journey for the past 19 days that I feel the Lord wants me to share with you.  For time sake I want to list some of them so you can see the pattern, but won’t go into detail about what was going on while they played or throughout the three weeks.  Just recognize the way the Spirit of the Living God was moving. 

-        God You’re My Deliverer, the one who cares for us.
-        This is Where Healing Begins. Where light meets the dark. Don’t fight the Light His blood can cover. 

About this time Christian recording artist Toby Mac came on for an interview, but this statement is what stood out from the rest. 

“God takes our brokenness and turns it into something beautiful.”

We cannot see God, but we can feel and see the effects of His love. Then the following songs played. 

-        There is Power in the Name of Jesus
-        Courageous
-        Fix My Eyes on You (set my sights on Heaven)
-        Lord I’m Ready
-        You Are Unchangeable
-        If I Told You My Story, Grace Wins Every Time
-        Call it Grace (by Unspoken) 

I was hoping that by taking notes and being aware of the presence of God my faith and belief in miracles would stay strong.  With each song God was giving me the right message needed for the upcoming weeks. 

2:30 PM 

-        Lay Down Your Heart, Come As You Are 

…. I put my hope, trust in You Lord. Psalm 130:5 was the theme for the station that day. 

Between songs the Lord would remind me of His Word. “Greater is He that is in you than He that is in the world.” 

-        Let My Words Be Life (Let my words be true …)
-        Your Words (Third Day) 

Your Words … claim the promises of God. It doesn’t change with our emotions.” Isaiah 40:8  

-        Be Held (you’re not alone. Just be held … not a tear is wasted.)
-        Stronger (this is going to make you stronger. The pain isn’t going to last forever. He is faithful to complete it if you only believe it.) 

My Heart Is Yours (my life is in Your hands. All to Jesus I surrender and freely give. Trust Him.) 

-        Just Say Amen (Anyone here found joy in sorrow? Just say Amen. Did you find peace in the story?)
-        Grace Wins Every Time (Matthew West) played again.
 

She’s Coming 

I Can Only Imagine was now playing.  At that time (3:20 p.m. 11/21/15) I heard in my spirit “She’s coming.”  All I could do was reject what I heard and cast it down as if it were demonic. Sometimes God prepares us and we don't want to receive what He is trying to do for us.  My spirit knew what my soul denied.

-        That Was Then, This Is Now 

“I’m (we're) not ready to release her Lord.” I cried.  A spiritual conversation manifested and continued.  

“She’s Mine.”
“I know …” 

Scriptures of joy from 1 Thessalonians 5 and John 16 helped me to stay focused. Lord that Your joy be made complete in me … the joy of Christ remains even when things aren’t perfect. 

-        The Story of Your Life (waters the glorious unfolding. The story is far from over; hold on to every promise the Lord has made.) 

Psalm 130:5 repeated 

-        Live on Forever (the Afters) 

“My hope and comfort Lord is that this isn’t where it stops. Make it easy for her.” 

-        When Mercy Found Me
-        Amen I’m Alive, Because He Lives
-        You Are Savior 

4:25 p.m. 

-        Promise Keeper (You see it through to the end; we will say You’re the Lord our God.) 

4:37 p.m. 

-        Would You Dare to Believe? (the pain you’re feeling cannot compare to the joy that’s coming.)
-        Amazing Grace My Chains Are Gone 

5:25 p.m. 

-        Your Grace is Enough for Me (Matt Maher)
-        Greater (Mercy Me)
-        Greater Is He  

It’s not that God is looking for us to try harder, but to turn to Him sooner when we slip or fall.  Evening had now come. 

6:16 p.m. 

Holy Spirit You Are Welcome Here played again as if the list has come full cycle.  This is where I first knew God was with us through this witness. Hours later He was still present to heal and comfort. 

-        It’s Not Over Yet (by 4 Kings & Country) 
-        Your Great Name (Natalie Grant)
-        Just Be Held played again.
 
“Come to Me all who are weary and burdened,
and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28) 

November 22nd, 2015 

The song “My Deliverer” by Matt Maher was playing in the background when he asked the listening audience: 

“Are we crying out in fear, or crying out because
we believed God will deliver us?” 

Right then, I wasn’t sure … 

3:40 p.m. 

With emotional rollercoasters filling our hearts my husband had a peace about him when he said, "Either way, it’s going to be OK.” 

- Lord I Need A Miracle (Third Day) 

November 26th, 2015 

It was that morning the Lord dropped the acronym B.A.R. into my spirit.  Through all of this I must have been hanging on to some bitterness, anger and resentment and didn’t realize it at the time.  However, it would manifest itself as I shared in the November 27th, 2015 Daily Favor Blog post “B.A.R. Hopping.” 

During this time my Bible studies landed on the book of Hebrews.  Chapter two laid heavily on my heart.  It seemed that angels were a big part of all the passages I was reading about bringing loved ones to glory. 

Subject to Bondage 

In the New Testament book of Hebrews, the author explains how Christ and the cross work in the life of a believer.  I understood all that, but this is something that I couldn’t let go and clung to my spirit as if it were a lifeline to Jesus. 

“Inasmuch then as the children have partaken of flesh and blood, He Himself shared in the same, that through death He might destroy him who had the power of death, that is, the devil. (verse 14) 

Like I have shared in the past, it was those two lines that showed on my electronic Bible screen that separated the rest of the verse for me and made this stand out as God intended. 

Verse 15 “… and release those who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage.” 

All their life subject to bondage!  What bondage? The fear of death.  This doesn’t have to be just physical departing, but any kind of death … work, relationship, pets, business, geographical … get it?  Anything related to “fear” subjects us to bondage.  It works against what Christ did on the cross when He released us from fear of anything.

However, when it comes to the physical body, we don’t have a problem with the “other side” do we? It’s the “before crossing” and the “process of” that causes us to be wrapped up in our emotions.
 
Part of the work of the cross of Jesus is to release Christians from fear that emotionally binds us.  God was specific that this merciful and faithful gift is favor He only gives to His believing children and not to angels. 

“For indeed He (God) does not give aid to angels, but He does give aid to the seed of Abraham (believers). Therefore, in all things He had to be made like His brethren, that He might be a merciful and faithful High Priest in things pertaining to God …” (from Hebrews 2:16-17) 

Although weeping over the loss of someone or something we love is not a sin, staying in the bondage that it stems from is.  With that in mind God led me to another passage, only this time it was from an online friend.

Where there is Grace 

The situation was looking really good and our loved one was getting better.  She was back to almost normal activity, and we believed God had answered the prayers of His Saints. 

I was reading through my email on December 7th, 2015 when I was notified of a post from my friend Gracie (God was even using her name to get my attention). 

The topic certainly interested me and I had no idea what the rest of the post was about to unfold.  Gracie shared a simple DIY ornament link that she liked, so I wanted to take a look as well.  It was sort of a teaser some might think, but I believe it was right from the hand of God. 

Her intro was brief and to the point, then she shared something that lifted my spirit.  Despite all the evil that is going on in the world, it is still a time to celebrate. 

After I read her post I was refreshed and encouraged even more that the works of the devil are not going to affect the celebration of Jesus at Christmas.  If it weren’t for Christ there wouldn’t be Christmas or anything to celebrate.  There would be no hope and we’d still be in bondage to all the work of the devil. 

There is no rule saying we have to decorate in order to show we’re Christians, but there is another way to look at it … through the unbelieving world’s eyes.  To them not decorating is declaring that we don’t really believe in the message of Christmas, and we believe in our grief or problems more than what salvation really means.   

Friend, be RELEASED from fear of any type now! 

Yes, no matter what is happening in your life at this moment, it is the exact time to hang those Christmas lights that represent the Light of Jesus coming into this world. Haul out the evergreen trees, representing everlasting life.
 
Put up the red ribbon bows that remind us that the blood of Jesus completed the circle of HOPE.  Christ the Lord, Risen Savior and Living God.


Story of Christ: Birth to the Cross to Reigning KING
Gracie’s words of wisdom echoed in my thoughts throughout the day. It had been nineteen days from the first doctor’s report.  We stayed in faith and didn’t waver as we believed for healing.   

Some say it wasn’t answered prayer, but we say it was God’s sufficient grace that prevailed. His favor on this soul was an answer to the prayer of mercy we prayed even though it didn’t manifest the way we hoped.  God was still present and in control.
 
There was no notice, no pain, but “suddenly” happened. One moment here, the next in flight with ministering angels. 

Cradled in my husband’s arms, at 11:15 a.m. tears of sadness and loss filled the hearts of all who loved this beloved twelve and a half year old.  She went to live with Jesus on December 8th, the day after I read Gracie’s post.  God's grace was leading us all the way, through songs of worship, people, internet posts, His Word and even His Christmas! 

“and He said to me (Paul and all believer’s in Christ), My grace (loving favor) is sufficient (enough, all you need for every situation) for you,

for My strength is made perfect in weakness.  Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9 NKJV) 

My husband has had much sadness and loss in his life, but God’s grace gave him physical and emotional strength, allowing him to be the vessel He used to usher His creation into the arms of our Savior.  What an honor! 

It’s with family consideration that I don’t reveal the name of the loved one, but know this … God's way says, it’s going to be okay! 

“… and surely I am with you always to the very end of age.”
(Matthew 28:20) 

 

This Week’s Challenge:
Sharing Grace in Christmas 

For some of you I am fully aware that this is a hard time of year to be “jolly” let alone think about putting up Christmas decorations.  However, as receivers of grace that’s exactly what we must do. 

Maybe you aren’t in a position where you can “deck the halls with boughs of holly,” but there is something you can do as a believer in Christ to reflect your thankfulness to God for the gift of His Son Jesus. 

Our Grace in Christmas Challenge: There are people all around you that need to be inspired, encouraged and see the hope of Christ displayed openly through favor (receiving something they didn’t work for or earn). 

What’s going on with your neighbors, community or nation? Do something to be a Light for Jesus.   

Grace Cards: Distribute cards that say “Merry Christmas” and have a verse on them.  Don’t just give them to people you know.  It’s more important to hand a card to a stranger with a cheery smile, because you don’t know if they are saved or need encouraging.  That card may be the only thing they receive for the season, so it needs to be special. 

Ribbons of Grace: One year we handed out over twenty red bows and asked people to hang them on their door so everyone on that street knew they were a Christian.  Houses that didn’t have one wondered what was going on … so we told them! 

Graced Favored Gifts: Leave a Christmas gift on a library table, at the laundromat or hang it on a bathroom stall hook labeling it “This is for you. The person looking at this bag!”  Inside give a gift that is useful, fun and inspirational.  Yes, it works. I’ve given out jewelry, watches and household items such as seasonal towels, Christian CD's/books, pot holders, good candles (not the dollar store cheap ones), etc. (Avoid food, because people will throw it away.) 

For those who have recently experienced loss, the road ahead may be difficult at times, but where there is God’s grace His favor will carry us through.  Those who come to Jesus, live! Like hubby said, “Either way, it’s okay.”   

I’d like to close this with a quote from Gracie: 

“We must keep our focus on King Jesus. Satan wants nothing more
 than to distract us from our Savior.  Life will get harder and
the news will get very discouraging at times for Christians,
but with Christ we will have eternal victory.”
 
Remember, God’s grace is enough, because He is faithful to His promises. Surely sharing God’s message of grace isn’t a seasonal thing, but is something to celebrate even more at Christmas. 

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Your Grace is Enough (Chris Tomlin)
 

Until next time, may God favor you with His grace! 

“I give you My grace & favor because you believed.”
Jesus Christ 

Note: The words satan or devil are not capitalized deliberately, because we give him no place in our lives.
Disclaimer: Article information is not meant to be used as treatment for mental or physical issues, but geared toward spiritual awareness. 

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