Do you feel like giving up and reached the end of your rope in trying to cope with life's struggles? Are you suffering in a manner that is overwhelmingly challenging, praying God would remove this pain from you?
Jesus knows exactly how you feel, and in fact prayed the same prayers that you might be saying right now. Discouragement and frustration can make us feel like all hope with the Lord's favor is nowhere in sight.
What makes a person find renewed hope? How did Jesus do it? Like this ...
When you're at that breaking point, seek God's Word for deliverance promises. Surrender your will to God, discovering your purpose in life for answers and His favor. Read more ...
"Not my will, but Thine Lord."
Jesus said, "Father, if You are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from Me. Yet I want Your will to be done, not Mine." (Luke 22:42 NLT)
Not My Will but Thine Be Done - The Grace Thrillers
Until next time, surrender to God's favor!
Follow Fay on social media or her other blogs, and share these articles of faith with someone today!
Maybe you don’t know the Living God that I know but would like to have this kind of favor in your life also. Click on the above tab “Tell Me About Jesus” for more information on becoming a child of the Savior.
Content and Image Copyright from Favored1. Do not copy. Book Advert Photo by Anthony Godinho.
Disclaimer Notes: Results may vary due to lack of belief. The reference to satan or devil are not capitalized intentionally.
Unless noted, scripture reference in series was taken from the New King James Bible Version provided by Bible Gateway. Image Creative Common License if not specified.
Inspiration, Fay Ann Daniels, Daily Favor Blog, Favored1, Daily Favor Teaching Blog, Salvation, Decision Making, Surrendering Your Will to God, Purpose Driven
If I were a betting woman, and I'm not ... I would "bet" that you didn't wake up this morning telling God,
"Good morning Lord. Just checking in to say You don't have to bother with anything on my agenda today. I've got things pretty well worked out for myself. I'm good ... have all the blessings I need. Don't give me any more; my favor levels are full."
If you did I'd question if you were awake yet! Of course no one enters God's throne room making statements like that. Blessings and favor are what we live for and need in life, it's been that way from creation.
Let me tell you something else while we're on the subject of blessings and favor. God wants to shower you with an abundance of good things. He desires it so much that it's a priority in His "list of crowns" book in Heaven.
That's great you may say when it comes to Heavenly rewards, but what about here on earth? Glad you asked.
Although there are numerous passages in scripture describing where God blessed individuals for obedience, the Bible doesn’t always point out specific things we are to do in order to receive those treasured blessings.
The good thing though, is that God provided a way to make it easier to achieve those goals by giving us His Holy Spirit for correction, guidance and wisdom.
When we seek the Lord for direction in prayer and through reading of His word, the Holy Spirit will reveal to our heart the correct decisions to make for any particular instance if we include God in them.
There's a still small inner voice - a knowing shall we say, that tells you which direction to take that will lead to God's favor and the favor of mankind. It’s called the unction or the anointing of the Holy Spirit that speaks to believers and gives us a knowing of what to do that pleases the Lord. Listen for that voice and then do what you were instructed. Obedience will lead you to blessings and favor!
Let the Lord know that you truly desire His will and want to know what He thinks, than wait and see how God responds.. Make an effort to consciously include Christ in the decisions you make. Employ the “Six Steps on How to Be Blessed with Favor” in your prayer life and throughout the day.
Six Steps on How to Be Blessed with Favor
1 - Our decisions will be blessed with favor when they include God.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not depend on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge (or know) Him, and He will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 ISV International Standard Version ISV)
Stay in fellowship through prayer and the reading of His Word.When we’re out of fellowship with God we can easily make wrong decisions thinking they are right.
2 - Our decisions will receive favor when they follow God's will and law of blessings and curses.
Biblical laws aren’t like our kind of laws, but are laws written on a believer’s heart revealed through the scriptures and the Holy Spirit as our relationship grows in the Lord.Not wanting to follow the will of God can get us into so much trouble, plus it takes us out of His favor and blessings.
"When they live by My statutes and keep My ordinances
by observing them, then they’ll be My people and I will be their God.
but to those whose hearts delight in loathsome things and
detestable practices, I'll bring the consequences of their
behavior crashing down on their own heads,
declares the Lord GOD."
(Ezekiel 11:20-22 ISV International Standard Version)
Even satan knows God’s will, truth and Word, that’s why he tried to tempt Jesus.The thing is though, Jesus knew he quoted the scriptures wrong.If we aren’t versed in the Word we might think we are making sound decisions based on the Bible, but they could be totally wrong.
3 - Our decisions will be blessed with favor if we delight ourselves in the Lord with a pure heart.
“Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the
desiresofyourheart.” (Psalm 37:4 NKJV)
4 – Our decision will be blessed with favor if we chose to follow God, not man no matter the circumstances.
Are we trying to please God, others or ourselves?The decisions we form concerning friendships make a difference in the amount of favor we will receive from the Lord.
"Now I urge you, brothers, to watch out for those who create divisions and sinful enticements that oppose the teaching you have learned. Stay away from them, because such people are not serving the Messiah Christ our Lord, but their own desires. By their smooth talk and flattering words they deceive the hearts of the unsuspecting.” (Romans 16:17-18 ISV)
5 - Our decisions will be blessed if our hearts desire is to serve God.Whether we realize it, the decisions we make truly reveal the deepest desires of our heart.
In the Old Testament of the Bible we read about an honorable and godly man named Joshua who made wise decisions. He declared among the people that he chose to serve the Lord, and challenged them to make a decision of whom they would follow.Notice he didn’t tell them they had to decide to follow his God, but declared who he had chosen.
“And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But asformeandmyhouse, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24:15. NKJV)
By making the decision to serve God Joshua received great favor and those who did the same also received blessings, because he was in the will of God.
6 – Our decision to seek God as a source of wisdom will lead us into His favor and blessings.
God created us to look to Him as our source of wisdom. Do not lean on your own understanding; he wants to direct your path into favor and success.
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God,
who gives to all liberally and without reproach,
and it will be given to him.” (James 1:5 NKJV)
Where are you seeking wisdom and counsel? Is your source for making decisions based on God’s word and will?Is it counter to the will of God? If so, it won’t be blessed by God.
We all make decisions every day; some not so earth-shaking, while others change our lives forever.Quick decisions or delayed ones; both can be disastrous if God isn’t in them.
Favored Life Lesson: God is eager to bless your life and give you the tools needed to succeed in your calling. Just talk to Him about it. As you pray and seek God’s desires, He will give you the wisdom needed to make the right decisions for life.
“I delight to do Your will, O my God, and Your law is within my heart."
(Psalm 40:8 NKJV)
Life doesn't have to be confusing, overwhelming or baffle us when we have to make hard choices. We have Holy Spirit help. If God has a good plan for us, isn’t it time we decided to seek and include Him in our lives? Make the decision to take the favored life lessons steps given to you today; they are your direct path toward blessings and favor.
“For whoever finds Me finds life, and obtains favor from the Lord.” (Proverbs 8:35 NKJV)
Maybe you don’t know the Living God that I know, but would like to have this kind of favor in your life also.Click on the above tab “Tell Me” for more information on becoming a child of the Savior.
Content and Image Copyright from Favored1. Do not copy.Disclaimer Notes: Results may vary due to lack of belief.
Scripture references provided by Gateway Bible in the New King James Bible Version or as noted.
Image credit: Google ImagesCreative Common License if not specified.
Several
months have passed since I began sowing my seeds for this year’s crop.I was intent on getting them ready even
earlier to make sure I had enough flowers for the flower competition at the county
fair.
Batch
number one was planted the first week of March and the second on the eleventh.Some seeds were mail ordered, while others
were my own.
About
now they are doing their best indoors, but truly long to be planted outside in
good soil so their roots can spread freely. Just when I think the weather is about right,
the winds come and temperatures drop back in the 40’s causing me to wait once
more on God’s perfect timing.
Be sure to read News from Fay, updates and
visit the Q & A or other
sections.
Submitting
to the Soil
For
the past few months I’ve been watching how magnificent life is through
seeds.They are truly amazing don’t you
think?
Carefully
I prepared the soil to receive these dried, lifeless, paper-like particles we
refer to as seeds.Some are as tiny as
granules of salt, yet they were designed by God to produce something.
It
reminded me of the mustard seed parable in the Bible.When planted, this particular seed begins its
life journey at only about 2 millimeters or 0.079 inches long.You wouldn’t know it by looking at the seeds
that the plant can grow up to nine feet tall.
I
was intrigued how one of our very own states, North Dakota, produces the largest crop
of mustard seeds in the USA and I never knew it!One of these days I’ve got to visit there so
I can cross it off my “places to visit” bucket list.
In
order for it to become this remarkable tree, the seed has to be changed from its
former self – a seed.The seed has to
die to being a seed so that it can become what God intended.It doesn’t have a choice of what it wants to
become, where or how it will be used.It
just has to submit when sowed in the soil in which its planted, and no longer
be its former self.
Once
plunged (submitted) into the ground and covered the transformation miraculously
begins. The tiny, paper thin, lifeless, dry seed that was held in our hand no
longer exists.At the proper time it appears
out of the ground totally different.Literally it was changed from something dead
into new life; it had to die so it could live!
Here’s
my point. If God can cause a seed to die to itself so that it transforms into
something else through submission, how marvelous is His favor toward mankind
when it came to the redemptive work of Jesus in saving the lost?God loved us so much that He sent Jesus to
die to self, submitting His earthly body to the ground to be used for His purpose, which was
to bring souls back to Him.
By
salvation through the death, burial and resurrection (rising from being dead)
of Jesus Christ, we are sown into God’s Heavenly garden as “Kingdom seeds” and
He expects us to bring a harvest.However, the only way that can happen is if we die to self so we can
become what God planted inside.You see,
the seed isn’t the final product; it’s the tool or source needed in order to
produce a desired end.
The
seed is only a vessel of something greater.It has to die (submit) so what’s inside can be born or live.When we die to self it allows God to transform
us into something more, granting the inner beauty to be birthed or raised.If we never die to self, we’ll never know what
God had planned to emerge out of us.
The
Most Difficult Prayer
Renowned
author C.S.Lewis wrote a series of “life lessons” for those of the Christian
faith, describing the temptation and failings seen through the viewpoint of the
devil (satan).It’s a dialog that we don’t
want to admit happens when it comes to denying self.
“Humans rarely pray for the thing God wants
them to pray for, they simply want enough grace (favor from Him) to see them
through some moment or time of trouble.They conjure up a vision of the future they want and appeal for that
outcome.
They persist in wrapping their anxious hands around
life’s steering wheel as if ‘it’s going to work this time if only they clutch
it more tightly.’ The most difficult prayer for us to voice is, not my will,
but Thine be done.”
Sometimes
it’s not easy to “go wherever the wind blows” as in walking with the Holy Spirit
in a direction that frankly, we don’t want to take.Our carnal nature wants things to go smoothly
without any uncomfortable circumstances.
There’s
no getting around it friends.Basically,
we want our will to be done – that’s why we prayed. If God’s gets accomplished
along the way that’s great, but Lord, don’t forget what I asked for first.
We
want life to be a breeze, with puffy clouds blowing gently among the blue, blue
skies of our uninterrupted world.Human
nature wants to compromise, but the thing is, once a seed dies it can no longer
be what it once was even if it wants to revert back to its former self.
The
fact remains, a seed will totally die if not sown because it becomes useless.Humans are God’s seeds and if we aren’t sown
into His good soil our souls will die, destined for nothingness and never
become beautiful like He intended.
Instead
of fighting against the “Wind – the Holy Spirit”, we need to prayerfully submit
and embrace the journey in which God will have us take.Dying to self is a process that requires Daily Favor
to endure, without it we’ll keep “blowing” around and never take root.When we finally grasp that concept it’s
easier to move with the Holy Spirit and minister to the needs of others, because
we are no longer obsessed with our own interests.
“Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit,
but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself (herself).Let each of you look out not only for his/her
own interests, but also for the interests of others.”(Philippians 2:3-4 NKJV)
How
Do I Die to Self?
I
wish there was a perfect answer to this … dying to self, but the truth is it’s
not easy.One of the hardest scriptures
that I have a difficult time with is 2 Corinthians 12:9, where God tells us
that no matter what we’re going through His grace (unmerited favor) is enough
for the situation.
“And He said to me, My grace (favor, loving-kindness and
mercy)
is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in
weakness.”
Okay
I get it - God shows Himself strong in my weakness … how does that help
me?Ah, read the last part of the verse.
“Therefore, most gladly I will rather boast in my
infirmities,
that the power (the Holy Spirit favor) of Christ may rest
on me.”
Not
until my weaknesses are exposed will the Spirit of God, the favor power that
blows on my life, change the “infirmities” or situations. Yes, but wouldn’t that require me to submit to the will
of God, becoming a living demonstration of Christ’s favor in order for something
good to come out of a bad thing?Of
course, it does, but thankfully we don’t have to do it alone.
The
Dirt Truth
There
is no getting away from it, the only One who can make us grow into something
amazing is God.Using the Easy to Read
version of the Bible, Paul the Apostle said in a way even a child can understand.
“Is Apollos so important? Is Paul so important?We are only servants
of God who have helped you believe.Each one of us did the work
God gave us to do.I
planted the seed and Apollos watered it.
But God is the One who made the seed grow.
So, the one who plants is not important, and the one who
waters
is not important. Only God is important, because He is the One
who makes things grow,” (1 Corinthians 3:5-7 ERV)
After
preparing the soil, the first thing I did in planning for my summer harvest was
to plant and water the seeds I was given.I did my part then God took those seeds that died to being seeds and
caused them to sprout into something different.The beautiful flowers were always there, but not in a form we could
recognize them as such.
Now
let’s transfer this into how it relates to Christian living.Each time I write an article, post something
on the internet or speak I plant seeds into others with my words.God initially gave me the “seeds” (words to
share about His truth).My part is done,
except for prayer, because I cannot force anyone to do anything with the seeds
I give/gave.
When
Paul said “Apollos watered, he meant that the words he spoke or wrote were now
being shared by someone else to keep the message alive.Without the continual watering (sharing) of
the gospel the words of Christ will die in the heart who received it.
After
the seed is sown (my part) and watered (your part) then the Holy Spirit goes
into action causing it (His Word into the heart of another) to grow into
something beautiful.When God chooses to
use us as seeds for His glory, our part is to plant and water what He has given
individually.
On
the other hand, if you are not a believer in Christ as the Only Begotten Son of
God and Risen Savior, none of this will work for you, because you haven’t received
a new spiritual heart to do the will of God in your life.Today you have been given favor by God in
reading this so your can become a child of His.It’s your choice, do you want what the Lord has prepared for you?
When
a person accepts Christ through salvation, the Lord breathes Holy Spirit power (blows
wind of eternal life into their soul) on them, and their entire concept or view
of life literally changes.It’s an
experience that causes you to seek the Will of God out of gratitude and love.
Requirement
for Growing
From
the very beginning in God’s Garden all living things were created to grow with
a specific purpose.Nothing was to
remain in the initial “seed” stage.
Do
you know the most interesting thing of all this?There is still one aspect needed for it all
to come together.You know what that is? Think about it. Wind
… yep!No kidding!
The
fourth part of making “this” (seeds dying to self, sowing, watering, growing … all of
life) work, is that none of it can happen without the favor of God through the touch of His Holy Spirit.
I’ve
been trying to move my seedlings forward into the purpose of what I intended,
but the wind has prevented that.There
are both good and bad wind breezes that affect life – human, animal and nature.
Touch test stimulated by fan wind.
Good
wind is not just beneficial, but greatly needed for all plant life to grow.When plants are seedlings the slightest
breeze moves them gently back and forth strengthening their stems.The "touch" result is that they become a hearty sturdier
plant that can withstand all types of weather if correctly cultivated.
It's the same for us. We need the touch of God's favor through His Spirit in order to fulfill the call on our lives. His mighty surrounding Wind makes us stronger so that through Him we can do all things as scripture declares.
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (empowers, infuses inner strength, gives me strength and confident peace to fulfill His purpose)." (Philippians 4:13 AMP emphasis mine)
The
opposite is true with gale force, derecho winds, which come to kill steal and
destroy. Sound familiar?It should,
because those winds aren’t of God. (See John 10:10)
We
all learned this from childhood. All things living need air – oxygen to survive.Plants use the carbon dioxide from the air to
make sugars and starches which feeds them.The roots have the job of gathering water and nutrients for the plants,
but without air they wouldn’t be able to fulfill God’s purpose for them. The
same goes for people, we all need “something” to grow and it isn’t always food!
This Week's Challenge:
Letting the Self-Seed Die
Admittedly, I don't like going through the process of anything. Process for me means waiting on something or someone else, and that slows down my plans. I'm so thankful that Jesus didn't feel the same way when He died to self on the cross that we might live eternally.
What I've learned through a lifetime of "seed processes" is that they're going to come whether I like them or not, so I might as well enjoy the journey. This mindset of dying to self doesn't come easy, and can blow emotions all over the place or out of proportion if permitted.
Daily I'm reminded of how much I need God and His Holy Spirit favor in all my plans or they just won't turn out the best they could be. Maybe you have discovered the same thing. If not, here are three things that help when going through the "self-seed dying" process.
1
– Remind yourself that you are not sacrificing anything, but seeking God’s Will
when you submit to the Lord.The attitude
of your heart in obeying His Will over your own will determine if you are
sifted and tossed about in the wind, which will cancel out favor on the
situation.(Read James 1 for guidance.)
2
– Be motivated by love for Christ.Dying
to self doesn’t mean that you obey God because you’re afraid of Him, that’s
actually the opposite of loving Him.Any
results you may gain will be short-lived.
Submitting to the Will of God must be
based on our genuine love for our Savior in redeeming us from our sins when He
was crucified. (Read Romans 13:1-7; Hebrews 13:17; 1 Peter 2:13-14 and Titus
3:1 for how to submit to God’s authority in love.)
3
– Chose mercy (favor). In other words, give
mercy (unmerited favor) to receive mercy and experience God’s blessings
(Matthew 5:7).When we’re backed into “corners
of life” the last thing we want to do is show or give someone mercy, especially
if they don’t deserve it.However, not
giving mercy will get you into worse situations with no way out from the Holy Spirit.
(Read Romans 12:8 about showing acts of mercy.)
Dying to self is a testimony that you alone can live before a world that denies God exists. Learning to submit your will is challenging, but remember what Jesus said? His sufficient grace, favor and loving-kindness are right there with you. He will supply the "Holy Spirit Wind" favor power for things to happen when the "self-serving seed" has died.
Heavenly Father,
You understand our hearts, know our needs and the root of our prayers better than we do. Our spiritual needs are more important than anything here on earth that is temporary.
With love help us to joyfully submit to Your Will that gives life meaning, purpose and fulfillment beyond anything we could ever ask or think. We are "Dying to Live" in Your Holy Spirit favor. Let Your powerful Wind move among the Body of Christ now that we might accomplish the vision that is seeded within us.
In Jesus; Name, Amen.
“Blessed (happy, to be envied, and spiritually prosperous –
with
life-joy and satisfaction in God’s favor and salvation, regardless
of
their outward conditions) are the merciful, for they shall obtain
Maybe
you don’t know the Living God that I know but would like to have this kind of
favor in your life also. Click on the above tab “Tell Me About Jesus” for more information on becoming a child of the
Savior.
Note:
Emphasis may be given in some scriptures to show clarity or understanding and
is not to take away from the inspirited Word of God.
When
used, the words satan or devil are not capitalized deliberately, because we
give him no place in our lives.
Disclaimer: Article information is not meant to be used as treatment for mental
or physical issues but is geared toward spiritual awareness.
Content
and Image Copyright from
Favored1. Do not copy.
Disclaimer
Notes: Results may vary due to lack of belief.
News
from Fay, Where Faith and Favor Meet, Salvation, Favor of God,
Favor, Favored1, Daily Favor Blog, Wherever the Wind Blows, Dying to Live,
C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters, Teaching Series, Obedience, Gardening, Weekly Challenge, Word Seeds, Submission, Christian Living, Humility